Rosa is now a very flourishing academically, this class is going very well, she has the chance to be stumbled upon a great teacher.
I say and re- say, not because I'm secretly fallen in love with him as suspect my friend R. :-), But because I am well aware that our luck.
For listened to parents of disabled children, I know that all children have no chance of hitting a teacher who will have the curiosity to spend evenings doing research on disability facing it for the first time and without even waiting for the advice of a teacher refer e Phantom of the academy, develop strategies to adapt lessons to one student, when he already has a class at two levels. Teachers who read me appreciate the feat. In
humanely it is really great: smart, funny, sensitive and firm with both Rosa has taken so much confidence in her that without any help from us, it revised its full history program since the autumn and received a 20/20, the best score of the class. This is the first time it has the best score of the class for another subject than poetry.
You can imagine as it could reinforce his self-confidence (she?)
When her teacher said to me, he told me to be happy and proud, and it showed it was a pleasure to see. There is a real bond between these two guys .
So she took over the perks and even if students are always so mean to her, I've seen for 3 minutes from the look in the canteen for the first time she does not want to change school because it feels good with his "master". The
problem is that not only are children becoming nastier with her, she still serves as scapegoat, but now she has more good results it is treated as "darling of the master." She has not lost its status as "outdated", but also now they crush her fragile confidence by telling her that if she has good grades, because his AVS answered questions in his place.
course at home in the evening we will prove that it is only gossip, but after hearing about such negative for 8 hours, how to reverse the trend in a few hours in the evening?
It was not the keys to a better social and I am powerless to help, but I do not expect it to be in greater suffering.
some time I thought him to school at home to protect her, but she likes school and I do not think in absolute terms it helps to make his place in society.
I really want to change the school to integrate a school in which she will not have such a heavy liability, but not only the leak never seemed to be a solution, but nothing she says will be more comfortable in his social relations changing schools. Besides it would face the disruption of all its bearings, what is more unsettling for a child with dyspraxia : difficult!
Soon there will be a follow up meeting, I will try to discuss this subject as frankly as possible, because at my level I feel that here I'm not going to find a solution.
order not to add to his difficulties and eliminate the causes of releases on physical criteria, the whole family is on a diet. I've never been a follower of the regime and it is true that my husband and I had to overweight and that Rosa has rounded under our watchful eye, because it has always eaten with relish and enjoyment. As part of his brothers very thin, it seemed reassuring (rapid weight loss when sick, which shows the coastline of my boys is something I have always stressed), I do not measure the consequences this might have for her at school because she is not "big".
But the fact is that in a few days between sports activities during holidays and a drastic reduction in the number of desserts, it has already lost the thickest part of his "nice bottle of childhood". We will help them grow, to be better about yourself and take the opportunity to improve our own health.
She gasped at first but she loves the sport and soon found a few hundred grams less enabled him to win his little brother in the race. :-)
Professionally I am also in full questions. I have cravings for hierarchical progression, opportunities that may arise and which would force me to go for the first time in the history of our marriage, my career before my husband. This would mean, of course, that it be more available to take Rosa to his many appointments weekly and take the relay in organizing our family life.
In principle it is agreed and encouraged me by saying that if necessary in a few months he asked to spend 80% to deal in turn children while I advance professionally, he n prevents it happening now even job interviews which will undoubtedly access to the position of his dreams (which I have urged for more than 10 years), but would travel abroad regularly and is totally the opposite of what he is willing to do to allow me to grow professionally.
So I'm waiting to see how it evolves for me, but I wonder if he sincerely wishes that I advance professionally? We always said we would do what is necessary to be either present for our children, but is it clear in his head that I should not be the only professional to make concessions?
On the other hand I have always so encouraged to fight to get this type of position I would feel guilty to stop him from achieving selfish today (finally!) Flourish in my work. But in life there are imponderables like discovering that her child and disabled and changing his plans, right?
short! Many questions, but for now I just asked my husband to call his work a development timetable for return twice a week early to care for children right out of the study (18h ), so I can go do sports to let off steam because I feel very close to the limits of my strength, so I'm waiting to see if it will, it will share a strong sign of its investment in balance our family life.
